Famous Bullies

The movies and television have provided us with shining examples of bullying behavior. Characters in a number of shows and movies provide us with the classic portrayal of the bully and give us someone to point to and tell our children not to act like that.

One of the best examples of a bully comes in the classic movie ” A Christmas Story.” Scut Farkus is the older boy in the movie who is constantly picking on the younger ones. We see kids go out of their way to try and avoid a confrontation with him. Finally, though this big bad bully gets his when one of the kids stands up to him and Farkus is the one who goes running home crying.

Another classic movie bully comes from the “Back to the Future” series. Biff Tannen may be the king of all the bullies on the big screen. Biff is the one who mercilessly picked on George McFly throughout their school years and on into adulthood. It was McFly who got the last laugh though when he married Lorraine, the girl who Biff was sweet on too.

When it comes to television one of the top bullies was the older brother on the Wonder Years. Wayne Arnold was always pushing around his younger brother Kevin and Kevin’s friend Paul. Another T.V. bully was featured on the animated show The Simpsons. Nelson Muntz used to loved to pick on Bart Simpson but in recent years they have turned into friends.

Thanks to direct.tv, the stereotypical bullies that we see on T.V. and in the movies can be great learning tools. Teachers and parents can point to these well known figures as examples of how not to behave. It is never O.K. to pick on another person and luckily in the movies and on television the nasty bullies end up getting it back in the end.

Facebook Makes Cyber Bullying Easy

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Bullying is something many kids have to deal with growing up. It seems near impossible to escape the crosshairs of a bully in your life but with the internet now in nearly every home, it could be almost impossible. Traditional bullying entailed being chased home from the school or the bus stop. The internet, especially Facebook, give a fertile breeding ground for bullies who can post disparaging comments right on a child’s profile page.

There are a few categories of bully that you will want to watch out for in protecting your child. There is the “mean girls” type of bully. This group is usually made up of girls who will choose a target and berate her with recklessness and little remorse. Everything is fodder for these girls, including the way the victim looks, dresses, and who her friends are. It is a goal of “mean girls” style bullies to break a victim down mentally.

There is also the “lash out” bully. These bullies often have a troubled home life and project their unhappiness by trying to ruin the life of a student. The bully will use the same tactics used against them in their home life. Insults, hitting, and various other bullying tactics.

There is also the bully who feels neglected and is just looking for a reaction. In this scenario, the bully will usually stop if you ignore his advances. Should you choose to argue back however, he will step up the bullying to an almost relentless level. The most important thing for a child to do when bullied is to report it to a parent or school staff member. No one should suffer through bullying alone.

What Is Cyber Bullying?

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Protecting Your Children Online

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Awareness Of Internet Protection Helps Prevent Cyber Crimes

Many countries do not have definite cyber laws to protect online users. Even if there are laws with increasing cyber crimes they are either outdated or does not cover all types of crimes. Internet protection guidelines should be created and awareness of the same should be spread among online users. This will help online users [...]

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Understanding the Motivations of a Bully

  Image via Wikipedia   If your child is being bullied online or at school, it helps to understand what causes bullies to behave the way they do. People are not born as bullies; they are conditioned to aggressive behaviors due to the circumstances of life. Understanding the motivations of bullies will help you assist [...]

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